
Last night on the way home from work, I stopped by the grocery store to pick up a few items; it was just enough to get us through to our next paycheck. We are both preschool teachers and live off a very small budget (well worth it to both of our points of view). However, we live off a budget and live paycheck to paycheck.
We don't rely on federal or state funding to get our needs met. This is partly because we make about $100 more a year than we should in order to qualify. But even if we made $100 less, we still wouldn't. We take responsibility for our actions and don't think that the hard working citizen should have to put food on our table just because we want an xbox 360.
While standing in line, there was a girl/woman/female in front of me with some chips, dip, and some other junk food. She was also holding a food stamp EBT card. This is a new system for handling food stamp money in which a person gets an ATM-like card to make their purchases. She then told the cashier that she wanted a bottle of some high priced alcohol. The cashier reminded her that the card would not pay for it; the girl said, "I know, I have cash for that."
She then proceeded to take out a wad of $20's from her purse. Seriously! She could have paid for my groceries, her junk food, AND her alcohol with that cash. Okay, let's give her the benefit of the doubt; maybe that money was to pay for her bills. However, I cannot overlook the fact that the alcohol she bought cost more than the junk food we tax payers paid for.
See, we need to make choices in our life. Sometimes these choices suck. I can eat or I can drink alcohol, I have to choose. Hey, I can either pay for gas in my car to get to work and make money or I can spend that money on the DVD for series 4 of House. Would I like to have that DVD? Of course! It would bring me much more happiness that trekking off to work everyday. But I have to live within our means in order to not be a burden on society.
In my program, we do home visits. I go into people's homes of children who are receiving free child care (free to them, tax payers pay the price). We also provide free food to these children and families.
There are some families that I feel really good about helping. I've had a widowed 23 year old mom with 2 kids whose husband was killed in an car accident on his way home from work. She was a SAHM and was going to home school her boys. He wasn't old enough to have but that much into SSI to hel his family out.
There are some other families that have just been dealt bad times and really appreciate the help and are trying hard at getting back on their feet.
Unfortunately, this is the minority.
There are many other homes that I drive up to and the house is falling apart. Literally, screen doors falling off hinges, roofs need to be replaced, lawns dead and not taken care of, broken windows, etc... The children are playing outside with no shoes; not because they don't want to wear them, but because the parents "can't afford" them. These children come to our program and eat three meals a day with us and scarf it down because it's their only meal in a day.
I walk into the homes and am greeted by several adults sitting around watching a big screen tv (many times too big for the room and unimaginable how they even got it in there) where the newest xbox game is being played.
The attitude is (and I've had several people tell me this to my face), "Hey, the government will pay for (this or that) why should I? I can spend my money on other things."
I do think that there needs to be some social programs available for some people; but I know from experience that our tax money is being wasted on things that it shouldn't be. No, we didn't pay for that big screen tv; what we payed for was the food or clothes so that the families didn't have to spend their money on needs so that they could get what the want.
Labels: socialism, Tax